I have found it to be a learning curve too, since all of my users are newly seasoned.
What I have learned, is that I don't allow liquids to sit in a pan very long. Any liquid. I am being careful as I go, until the seasoning builds.
Oh, and I really pulled a dumb move over the holidays last fall... cooked a Cranberry Bread in my Cornbread skillet, and left it in the skillet until it was gone... about 2 days.
Oh boy... talk about a mess. Guess those cranberries were kinda acidic too.... bye-bye seasoning.
So, lesson learned. I won't make that mistake again. ::) ::)
You are not alone... Mastering 'seasoning' has been the toughest part of it for me, and learning how to cook with it, the second . ;D But I will prevail!!! 8-)
And I've also relaxed a bit because, after all , with multiple lye baths, and multiple electros, I am more than equipped to re-do.